Privacy
Private relationship information, treated that way.
Plain answers to the questions you'd want to ask.
What's collected
- Your answers to the questions, including any optional notes you write.
- A first name (or any name you choose) and, optionally, where you came across this.
- The date you sent your answers.
- Nothing else: no email, phone number, surname, photos, location, or account. No tracking or advertising cookies.
When it's collected
- While you answer, everything stays in your own browser so you can pause and come back.
- Nothing is sent until you reach the end and explicitly choose “Send to Benjamin.” If you choose not to, your answers are erased from your device and nothing was ever transmitted.
Who sees it
- Only Benjamin, through a private, password-protected page.
- He sees your answers and a summary of where you two seem to fit, where you might not, and what might be worth talking about. It is not a score of you as a person, and you are never ranked.
- Your data is never sold, shared, or used to train anything.
How long it's kept
- Up to 12 months after you send it, then it is deleted automatically.
- Benjamin may add private notes for himself; those are deleted with your answers.
How to delete it
- When you send your answers you receive a private deletion code. Enter it on the delete page and everything is removed immediately.
- Lost your code? Ask Benjamin directly and he will delete it.